I think that he is just really angry at you for something. I don’t know what happened between the two of you, but I would try talking to him and asking him to just say how he feels and why he is angry, while promising that you won’t argue, disagree or contradict him in any way. I he feels safe to talk he will tell you the truth, and that’s a place to start, I think. Good luck!
Is this his way of trying to get rid of me as I’d rather now be his puppet if it is.
Is that the only change you feel in your relationship since its started?
Do you still talk, share things, laugh together? Have fun? If the answer is yes, I don’t think this makes you his puppet.
This exactly how I feel its a 7+ year relationship and he dosent even notice when I purposely get made up for him or wear some lingerie. he dosent even Glace twice. also he will pupously pick a fight before we planned to make love i think he dies that to avoid sexual contact with me….ive been told im a very attractive girl im 24 great body the whole package but i dont understand why his passion,intamany isint tired of feeling undesirable. I’m tired of xpress desperately begging him to sleep with me more often. idk could it be his hundreds of downloads of anal porn? well yea I’ve overdone my part in that it’s not enough plz help email me
Although not everything is about sex but he isn’t interested in pleasing me anymore he’s more interested in having his bit then going to sleep this makes me feel like it’s pointless and I’ve told him this there isn’t any point
My boyfriend claims to be busy eith his work. He diesnt call or text me till at night and when we start chatting, the next thing is he is sleepy. I am so confused as i dont know wether he still likes me or not
Have you tried talking to him about this? Try to ask him if something is wrnog, but without anger and accusations, and see how he reacts.
Dear Lisa, Please guide me. My bf and i had a really healthy relationship for 2.5 months. One day he informed me that he got a major corporate project and wpnt be available for next 2.5 months (till March). He won’t answer my calls and texts from that day. On the other hand i kept irritating him via calls/sms that made him annoyed. He said he already informed me of his busy schedule so can’t be available till march. He got online on FB/ Whatsapp for a maximum of an hour but don’t talk to me. Now what should be done… Should i move or waited for him?? P.S i really love him… Couldn’t handle myself since a month
Wow, that’s upsetting. It’s only my opinion of course, but if he is like this, I wouldn’t wait for him. I would move on. I’m sorry you’re going through this.
Hello Lisa, I think most of people who goes through hard time need desperately someone like you to advise them and provide help so thank you. I am Danielle and I’m in a relationship for 3 years. We had the moat amazing relationship you can imagine until we moved together, things started to be boring sometimes, the sexual attraction has decreased , interests started to change, he wanted to spend more time with friends, away from me, he started to love me way less than I do until he recently cheated on me , I am heartbroken and devastated. At first he admitted that what happened is a good reason to break up and he was soo tough, until I took the decision to leave the house, and he broke down in tears and asked me to stay and said that he s sorry , he won’t do it again as long as we re together and that he is willing faithfully to try to save this relationship and get love back to it. I would like to know if you think this relationship has any chances to survive, and what should I do? 1-Stay , forgive and make him love me again (how)? 2-dont try to give a chance and invest more energy in this relationship and just leave?